Dost ko udhaar dena chahiye ya nahi? Dene se pehle 5 sawaal
Raat ko message aata hai: "Bhai, thode paise chahiye the, jaldi lauta dunga." Dil kehta hai de do, dimaag kehta hai ruk jao. Dono sahi hain. Udhaar dena galat nahi hai, bina soche dena galat hai. Dene se pehle yeh 5 sawaal khud se poocho.
1. Agar yeh paisa wapas na aaye, toh chalega?
Sabse zaroori sawaal. Utna hi do jitna kho dene par bhi tumhara mahina na bigde aur dosti mein kadwahat na aaye. Agar jawab "nahi chalega" hai, toh amount kam karo ya pyaar se mana karo.
2. Paise kis cheez ke liye chahiye?
Hospital, fees, rent jaisi zaroorat alag hai, aur naya phone ya trip ka shauk alag. Poochna buri baat nahi hai. Zaroorat ho toh madad karna dosti hai; shauk ho toh "abhi nahi yaar" bolna bhi dosti hai.
3. Kab tak wapas aayega? Abhi tay karo
Date baad mein tay karna sabse badi galti hai. Dete waqt hi halke se bol do:
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"Haan bhai, bhej raha hoon. Mahine ki 30 tak lauta dena, theek? Main us din yaad dila dunga 😄"
Isse baad mein maangna awkward nahi lagega, kyunki dono ko pehle se pata hai.
4. Pichli baar kya hua tha?
Agar is dost ne pehle bhi liya aur time pe lautaya, toh bharosa karna aasaan hai. Agar pichla udhaar abhi tak "kal pakka" mein atka hai, toh naya dene se pehle purana saaf karna theek rahega.
5. Mana karna pade toh kaise karoge?
Na kehna bhi dosti ka hissa hai. Bas pyaar se, bina lecture ke:
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"Yaar, abhi mera khud ka budget tight hai, isliye nahi de paaunga. Kuch aur madad chahiye toh bol."
Aaj ki pyaar wali "na", baad ki naraz wali "haan" se kahin behtar hai.
Agar de rahe ho, toh yeh bhi karo
- UPI ya bank transfer se do. Record apne aap ban jaata hai.
- Likh lo: kitna, kis liye, aur kab tak. Bronomics jaisa private khata yeh seconds mein kar deta hai.
- Date aane par halke se yaad dilao, mazaak ke saath. Aur zaroorat pade toh Bro tumhari jagah funny tareeke se yaad dila dega.
Soch samajh ke diya gaya udhaar dosti ko kamzor nahi, aur mazboot banata hai. Paisa wapas, dosti intact.